So I was talking with my girls the other day, well more like arguing/having an interactive session about guys that beat their wives or girlfriends. First of all, a guy can't just wake up and start beating his woman unless he's been possessed by some certain demons, or has a p past history of his father beating his mother or has one issue or the other, which is why we should know who we end up marrying! Ask questions about his past, his family and so on, by asking you are never at a loss, as it will give you an insight on how your future together will look like. Because if he saw his father constantly beat his mother, he may think it’s right and will take that hand with you. Or if he was abused or molested as a child, this could also be another cause. Beatings can be lashed out because of anger or frustration on the man’s part, but, no matter what, I don't see any reason why a sane man should lay fingers on a woman. Honestly, women will talk; they've been talking right from time. Men out there should just learn how to accommodate and compromise that is why they are the head of the family.
And women even the bible in Colossians
3:18 says:
"Wives, submit
yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord". The day you
accepted to marry that man in the presence of your family and friends you
agreed to give your all to him, and that also includes submission. He cannot be
talking one and you're talking two. Something like three is bound to happen!
When you're dating and your boyfriend hits you, you can easily leave him and go
away but when you're married, you can't just up and leave, you might have kids
to consider and you can't keep running away because it’s for better or for
worse. But when it comes to a stage that he beats you daily without you
provoking him, and he's taking out his frustrations and anger on you, then it’s
time to make a move.
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Honestly, I still believe a
man should have no reason to hit a woman, when we talk like we do and it gets
too much, leave us alone. Go out, get some air and when you come back settle
things. Don’t just start raising your manly hands to hit on a woman. It doesn’t
say much about you being a man.
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